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Thursday, February 26, 2015

Beauty and the “Beard”



This is the time people are too engaged in their talks about men in blue and bleed blue! And I for a change, pushed my thoughts train to travel and explore the “beard” look of a man and what significance it can add to them.  Men are left with not too many choices as far as their look is concerned, one distinct difference they can bring in their appearance is through sporting a beard or a stubble (who didn’t appreciate John Abraham’s stubble look?) it can cover up the shortcomings of the face and adds more value to get that “ one more glimpse” of it.  

In ancient days beard symbolized the manhood and wisdom. Men in those days felt as though it is their valued possessions.  In fact, punishments were offered like shaving off the beard to humiliate the cowards. There is a story that Abraham Lincoln was advised by a little girl to grow a beard as she thought that it would suit his face and he would look classy! The “great” followed her suggestion and this not only changed his image but also gained him loads of confidence.

In old movies…we used to see clean shaven look heroes and over grown and shabby beard of the villain, however this jinx is broken completely! Thanks to the serious movies because the character needed the intense look! And yes…beard is in vogue and back again with a thumping majority! The contribution from many sportsmen and other celebrities has helped in projecting this special look as a widely accepted personality in this fashionista era!

When I was young, I was always fascinated to strike a conversation with a person who had a beard, because I was convinced that he is more knowledgeable and can talk good. Later...I came to know some of the interesting factors behind the beard! I was told that, men have beard when they want to tell the world that their love is doomed, or to proclaim their unemployed status or when they want to hide their pimples. And the last one is too interesting and unbelievable…which is husband sports a beard when he is expecting his child!!! This is to gain sympathy and importance along with his pregnant wife!!!

Chocolate boy image is one phase in every man’s life…to get admired and feel too good about oneself. However our very own Shah Rukh earned better brownie points for his “Chak de” looks than an ever sweet lover boy persona. Researchers from the University of South Wales have come to a conclusion that 10 days beard is more attractive to women, Therefore having a beard is almost like wearing your attitude now ( Virat Kohli is the best example) if you can grow it flaunt it guys!!! However… style it to get a well sculpted face, macho and mature look. And why not? It is a man’s thing…!!!





Sunday, February 15, 2015

The Great " Indian" lovers...


Valentine’s Day had just been over and our hearts are coming to terms. As we have inherited the concept of celebrating this day from western countries, we have almost aped everything!! However our Indian lovers are typical and leave their “desi” touch when it comes to expressing themselves. But why this grand celebration? How many of them are serious about the proposals that they made or agreed on??
At the age of 25 and after…youngsters are suffering from a phobia called “commitment” and this penetrates them deep in their heart. Because mind is wavering and expecting that they should not miss the “better than the best”. Almost stopped following the heart and often want to follow their mind, and the super logical ever Wi-Fi active mind is under constant change and therefore they lack in sticking to one man or one woman! Too many choices really baffle and contentment is a big question?! Once upon a time, it was Owners envy and neighbors pride however nowadays….Owners and neighbors are in the same boat!
There are a few more reasons that I can attribute…for our great lovers as to why they adapt the flight method!
1. Mamma’s boy or Daddy’s girl… it is an easy way to get out of the commitment as they want to be a true son / daughter. Marriage is an ultimate sacrifice that they are ready to do.
2. A socially intelligent man or a woman is accepted only in parties or for an outing, because there is a belief that she or he may be smitten by love from all corners!!
3. Another interesting Indian lover quality is…. “I won’t kill you but will hurt you if you try to leave me!” Men wear muscle power bullet in their behavior and women are not disarmed. They also equally contribute with their mind power.
4. Over confidence and performance appraisal (HR report) go into the head, so one starts thinking that No girl can match up to what I deserve! Even if she is an inflated Barbie doll or a total “take home material”. In the same way, women too think that I am the best of the best…and what did he do to get me fully?
What is the solution now? Appreciate what you got easily…and respect if someone shows emotions by giving their time. Try to understand the spoken and their unspoken language. Don’t look for an exclusive one, who is not perhaps existing at all. Take risk…to experience the biggest kick of life!!!
If this article makes you angry or feel like agitating….yes!! I am happy….because we don’t want great lovers…. All we want is REAL lovers!!!